I did my
B.Tech Honours in 2012. I never was attracted to corporate world so I declined
TCS offer letter. I wanted to feel like
I m giving back something, because I think I have had a privileged life and it
seems to be a moral, commonsensical duty. To be born to an educated, middle
class, "upper caste" family which practises the majoritarian religion
of our country, to be born as an able-bodied, heterosexual, cis-gendered
male/female with above average mental faculties-covers a whole range of privileges
that most of us aren't even aware of. I feel like I am only consuming. Our
lives just create demands. They aren't in sync what most of our country
supplies through informal economy. Frankly, we feed off them and forget to
replenish them.
I thought
public services in India offer a grassroot level exposure. I went to Delhi to
prepare for civil services exams. I cleared JNU entrance exam for Sociology
then left it because I had already covered their curriculum in my preparation.
I joined a public sector bank as probationary officer, meanwhile. For one year
, I was posted in a small town in south India and the sudden change was
excruciatingly hard for me. I got transferred to North because of failing
health. Recently my health has improved and I cleared my state's civil service
exams because banking certainly doesn't feel like public service. It's like any
other profit making business. However, in the course of preparation for Civil
Services and my time in the bank, I have realized that we have all accepted a certain
level of hypocrisy and pretence. We label it as "way of world".
I read many books on metaphysics and
philosophical discourses on meaning of life, karma, conciousness, nature of
reality etc and it made me feel better for a while. I can't really explain it
but most of us live a lie.
Why do we
need houses big enough so that a maid needs to clean it for us? Why do we
assume that our maid is a servant who is being employed by us? Why can't we see
that it is the only option our lifestyles have left for her? Where do we get
the audacity to demean or dismiss agriculture and Ayurveda as the work of poor,
illiterate and backward? Without even studying or knowing them? Why do we need
a fast paced life where we are just cogs in the economic machinery? Why are we
"unsuccessful or failures" if we refuse to keep up with the sheer
stupidity of capitalism/ consumerism? Why do we never question the
socioeconomic engineering we undergo through state controlled doctored
education?
While I
am inclined towards Indian Civil Services because of the joy of reading and the
hope that it provides enough resources and authority, society around me makes
it a prestige issue. Positions of authority in a democracy should be the
highest positions of service. Not power. It's all thoroughly confusing. I m not
sure what it is that I can give back...i just want to be less of an ignorant
burden on the world if nothing else.
I am
going on about life, waiting for things to take shape. When I make myself the
happiest, I certainly upset my elders and confuse the normal folk. I want to be
as rooted and grounded as possible, but it makes life extremely difficult
because I am tired of explaining. And then i m tired of finding my own
answers...Its like talking to a wall.
How, how
can we just assume that poverty, inhuman behaviour, stark difference in
privilege is just normal? By mere accident of one's birth? How can we construct
any ideas of prestige or status while we live so disconnected, with impunity?
There is something very very wrong in our world and its not even visible to
many of us. How can we just turn a blind eye to our own consequences!!!?
I am
sorry, I have only been complaining and not offering a solution, but it's rare
to find a non-bookish environment for such dialogues.
However, it
is ok really. To live a life that others don't understand. To be impractical
and overly sensitive. If your heart aches as much as it flutters, let it. With
every thought and deed rooted in authenticity and compassion, there are a
hundred ripples. It doesn't matter what our differences and political opinions
are, we must be more aware and empathetic. More than anyone else, it is unfair
to our own selves if we live cut off or shut out from what are essentially the
repercussions of our own actions. There are many, many weirdos who do not
conform, and if you're one of them, know that you're valued, important and
supported. <3
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